Hello All,
(What a subject to put my first post on - the tentative subject of Masonic Knowledge)
It seems dismissive, possibly too liberal, to say that I think many comments are right, even though, at first glance they may appear contradictory.
We all acknowledge that different people come to Freemasonry for different reasons. We also acknowledge they also stay for different reasons, finding different aspects of Freemasonry to be rewarding. Often we accidently in discussions run the risk of speaking in terms that we think each person has a singular motivation, while equally from our own experiences we acknowledge that our passion and interest in Freemasonry is a collection of things. We don't all share the same collection, but rarely is it one concept that keeps us coming back to more. For some it is the gathering, some the company, some it is the history and some the mystery.
The last two, in my humble opinion, are often mistaken for each other, and often difficult to tell apart. The historical account of why we do things, not always defines the 'meaning' of why we do things. For example the historical act of crossing staffs could relate to a replication of say forming a roof (the final protective part of a structure) but the mystery is what we take this imagery to mean - and the sensative world of Esoteric discussion begins. At times I feel it is hard for us to define in discussion our interests and values when it comes to these subjects. Partly because we know they can be sensative issues, but also because they are so entwined. Unfortunately, when it comes to the esoteric, I respectively leave that to person choice. My mind can appreciate the historic, but the Esoteric is a little to vague for me. I guess that is why I prefered Mathematics to English Lit at school.
So for me, if advice was sought, I would recommend to try and define for yourself what Freemasonry is to you, what worth you find in it. We all enjoy and value the Gathering and Social aspect, but if you are seeking to actually learn more, then try and define in yourself what you are looking for. If you know that then I am sure a Brother will be there to guide you on that path.
I agree it is almost overwhelming to see the many directions Masonic Orders can take an individual. And I agree it is not a race, but I would differ in my approach to the opportunities that stand before you. If you have the time and its causes no detriment to your life or those dependent to you, I would embrace all you can. It could allow you to see an otherview of what Freemasonry has to offer. Then you can reflect on what you see and what direction you then wish to focus on. My thoughts are only an alternative. Its what I did and I have no regrets for my actions.
If purpose and meaning is a concept for you, and you are looking are attracted to the side Orders of the Craft, I would also humbly suggest you look at the actual history of the founding of those orders. Freemasonry is a historic social society, as such we cannot deny that social trends have influenced its direction, some side orders do appear to be reflections of the times of their establishment.
(Psst - the lucky thing about English Freemasonry is that technically we onlt have EA to HRA

- so not a bad place to focus on)