Advice on joining

Hey guys,
I'm 30 and thinking about joining the Freemasons in Hong Kong. I've moved here about 10 years ago to run a trading and wholesale business.
Why do I want to join? After living here for such a long time, I suddenly realized that I don't actually know anyone and I am not sure in which direction I should move from here. Should I continue in China or move back to my home country etc. The reason for this is that although I'm legally a resident in Hong Kong, my job requires me to spend most of my time in Mainland China. I don't meet people outside of work and the culture in China is so that most people I meet want something out of that meeting. I'm now at a point where that makes me really tired all the time.
I don't know anyone who is a mason, but writing the local lodge is pretty straightforward, so I'm not worried about getting an initial meeting. What worries me are the two references I assume I will have to name for my background check. I honestly don't know two people who know me well enough to act as my reference. Another thing that worries me is that Freemasonry in HK seems to be kind of elitist. There are only a bit over 1000 members and I'm not sure what the chances are for someone who isn't in the legal or finance profession.
Do you think it would be worth a try?
Before I apply, I'd also like to know the difference between the constitutions. HK being a former colony the lodge building is shared by all lodges and all 3 constitutions are represented. Which constitution would be the most fun to join? What exactly are the difference between the English, Irish and Scottish system?
Thank you very much. I'm sure your answers will lead to more questions in the future ;)
I'm 30 and thinking about joining the Freemasons in Hong Kong. I've moved here about 10 years ago to run a trading and wholesale business.
Why do I want to join? After living here for such a long time, I suddenly realized that I don't actually know anyone and I am not sure in which direction I should move from here. Should I continue in China or move back to my home country etc. The reason for this is that although I'm legally a resident in Hong Kong, my job requires me to spend most of my time in Mainland China. I don't meet people outside of work and the culture in China is so that most people I meet want something out of that meeting. I'm now at a point where that makes me really tired all the time.
I don't know anyone who is a mason, but writing the local lodge is pretty straightforward, so I'm not worried about getting an initial meeting. What worries me are the two references I assume I will have to name for my background check. I honestly don't know two people who know me well enough to act as my reference. Another thing that worries me is that Freemasonry in HK seems to be kind of elitist. There are only a bit over 1000 members and I'm not sure what the chances are for someone who isn't in the legal or finance profession.
Do you think it would be worth a try?
Before I apply, I'd also like to know the difference between the constitutions. HK being a former colony the lodge building is shared by all lodges and all 3 constitutions are represented. Which constitution would be the most fun to join? What exactly are the difference between the English, Irish and Scottish system?
Thank you very much. I'm sure your answers will lead to more questions in the future ;)